Should parents spank their children or not?

Should parents be allowed to spank their children when they are still young?Perhaps,lots of parents have asked themselves this question at least once.Some parents think that spanking their children is the best way to educate them while others are against.In my opinion,it is not a good idea to spank the children when they are young because actions of family violence has an impact on mental,children’s physical developing,and character of the young in the future.

The first reason supporting to my idea is that acts of violence from parents cause an impact on mental,such as effecting to health and child psychology.Firstly,it will have bad effects on health, a child is spanked too strong over head,he/she is in serious damage,diseases relates to nerves such as:neurological disorder which accords to the psychologist somethimes lasting throughout life.Next,the children are effected on psychology,they will be in fear and become an obsession day and night when they are spanked by their parents.

Next,physical development of children is effected by spanking of their parents such as causing hinder physical development in children,their brain know everything slowly.For examples,in class,a child comes from a well-educated family without spanking ,they are always happy,and more intelligent than the children who their parents always spank.Moreover,as parents,If we spank our children ,depression of children can happen,they become afraid of us and not want to eat anything,exercising,all activities of the children affected.So,depression makes the nerve and physical development of the children be effected.

Last but not least,spanking the children will be harmful for character of the young in the future.As you know,when the children were young,they were obsessed by being beaten with a rod Which became an obsession unforgettable,growing up,it is very easy for children to be stimulated,tend to be violent in any case,become a violent man,sometimes young offenders.Beside, make girls and boys have thoughts of depression, the boys eventually formed to recognize that men have beaten women,bad behavior for wives while the girls have an aversion to men.

Despite all the reasons above,some people still insist that spanking their children is the best way to educate them.They always beat their children with a rod in spite of their young age because parents expect for  their children more obey in the future.However,they should know that there are many ways for their children become good person without spanking that means that parents need to know to talk to their children, to explain to analysts understand their mistakes and find ways to avoid similar situations.Therefore,parents spank their children is not good.

Owing to the reasons I discussed above,parents shouldn’t spank their children when they are young.It will give negative effects to mental, physical development of children,and be harmful for character of the young in the future.In my opinion,a family has to know how to educate their children to live better without spanking so that they are always happy.

I was in the past and now

Sometimes I sit alone and realized that the learning environment in Saigon has made not only I but also many people change clearly in character,in shape, thinking to live better,but I have a hobby that I haven’t still changed until now,especially I like to go to church even though I am a pagan.

To me,church is always a good memory,when I was young,I and my three best friends usually go to church to pray every Sunday afternoon, then we walked around the church,when tired we sit down large trees and tell each other about education, love.I remember a friend in my group told that"when we have lover ,we will give him to come this"and my group agreed and laughed more, nine years have passed and now I still go to church, everything is beautiful as ever, sitting in church I remember about my childhood with my friends,froot of trees around church ,on the anniversary day.

Despite this similarities, and I and I was 9 years ago is completely different from my thoughts.As a child I lived in the love of family, so I do not know what to worry about life, I live superficially,carefree, and always be true to myself despite what others think, further, all day I just eat and sleep, sleep,,, always comfortable money , but now when I grow up, I felt that I am more mature, living away from their family,so I know how to manage my spending accordingly, what they should or should not spend money, moreover ,I always consider carefully before speaking, so last summer when I visit home, listening to my talk, my parents really surprised me because of my maturity.
It is very interesting to explore the hidden beauty of human existence in order to gradually realize we should or should not change anything to suit the  living environment .The people said that the most happiness of parents is that,you become more mature, but going to church is a hobby which I  never give up until now

Love is the happiness of man

    Fruit of silence is prayer
Fruit of prayer is faith
      Fruit of face is happiness
           Happiness is the fruit of love

Poems gently but let me many feelings:When you can live without shared attention?have you ever cross street in a hurry without seeing beauty of a flower,or ignore the gift of life?Don’t wait until tomorrow to realize how life loves,noone wants to live alone and we were born to love each other.In my opinion,love is the happiness of man.
Firstly,What is love, you know?love comes from your family :parents’love is the most effective medecine to relieve pain.From the moment you were born with love,while still in mother’s womb,you can feel her hand comfort you,her sweet voice.Then,when you take the first cry,have you seen happy father’s face,and to me, during my childhood ,I learned my father’s calm character.I remembered that when I was 14 years old,I told a rule word with my mother which made her sad,at that time I’m afraid that my father would be shout ,but he only quietly and just  told me understand.My parents love me from simple things which make me smile and happy.
Secondly,feeling love from friends arounds you,Especially,when you live far from your family,friends are very important because they are a support for you to share joys and sorrows of life,only need their concern when sick also make you feel happy and warm ,then from friends into lovers,and when a boy loves a girl,he/she always feels happy through eyes looked each other,or hug tightly,she needs a shoulder to lean when sad,or a sincere words of encouragement...and  their love just beautiful,really only meaningful when they know how to give without holding back tightly because when they hold back love means they hold happiness was over ,but happy reluctant ever,ever mean?So,let’s let everything pass,whether by time,everything will eventually fade, but love remains always there, always new and happy to be born.
Finally,happiness means that you spread out your heart to live and love ,that is happiness in spirit,building a mental beauty to perceive the beauty of early morning dew drops,to listen the clear laughter of children,or give old lady’s hand across the street, hug mother’s body and say: "I love you" every day. Life, love these things around, ask friends and relatives about myself, is also an opportunity for you to discover the beauty of life, a chance for you to know that what is happiness.
May Gob bless each be peace and happiness ,bring me peace to love myself and every around me because When you find your joy in the happiness of another person means you have to  love